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The above question have been asked by a lot of swingers and not
just swingers lady. If you perform oral sex on a man and he cums, he will
ejaculate sperm. If it happens with you, while his penis is in your mouth, you have two choices.
Swallow his sperm or don't
Of course if he wears a condom that change everything.
The amount of ejaculated semen for an average man is less than a teaspoon. However it feel much more if you aren't prepared to receive it. If it happens as surprise, you can still keep perform oral
sex on him for a few seconds and let it dribble out discreetly the corner of your mouth. Nobody will realize it.
Or you can swallow it.
So once again, how important is swallowing a man's semen?
Hard to say, it is like anal sex, it might be his secret fantasy and he might never experienced it. Maybe
nobody never done it for him and this is one of the main reason why he did not
stop you. If this is something that he really want he should ask you to swallow and you can make up you mind before.
For most of the men, it is not a issue. Most of the men believe it, swallow is nice but not necessary. They think: She does or doesn't swallow, is not the indicator her oral sex skill. It is indicate her comfort level with her sex partner.
Swallowing is not routinely practiced sexual activity, because the great amount of health concerns for
the performing women. The HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases made safe sex an issue. To swallow a man's semen is not safe. However if you know your partner very well, if you know he wasn't exposed to HIV then safe sex is not an issue. If you are 100% sure he is safe (but can you be 100% sure?) the only issue is you want to swallow his semen.
If you want, it can be done very easily.
Perform oral sex on him until he is close to cum. When he breaths faster and maybe deeper, or he might moaning
and his balls are tight, he is close to ejaculate. However men are different. Some of them can control their breath and they can keep their head cool very well. They can hold back the orgasm for longer time,
but all men's testicles will move up closer to their body before the orgasm.
If this happen and you realize it, from this point you can control him. If you want to finish him
deep-throat him and
massage his perineum. Basically you will massage his perineum when you are ready to swallow. He will shoot his stuff strait down into your gullet. You won't taste it and you won't gag. He might know how to delay his orgasm in deep-throat position, but if you know how to massage his perineum he will cum in a matter of seconds.
Safer Oral Sex
Performing oral sex on a man, wearing a condom reduces the risk to pick up STD. In almost every sex shop possible to buy condoms in any color and any taste that are designed and made for oral sex only. However un protected oral sex is safer then unprotected intercourse. Otherwise, spitting may reduce the risk of certain infections more than swallowing. Of course, keeping ejaculate out of the mouth is even safer.
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