Swinging Advice for Women

How many ladies came up with the idea, "Honey let's go to the swingers club!!!"  Not too many. Even if she wants to do it, most of the time she will make him somehow to say it. But usually the basic swinging idea comes from the man and later on she keeps the couple involved. 

Why is this? Females’ are more closed and shyer then men. Sex is more taboo for them then for men. Also usually females have less sex partners than man. Unfortunately not many men are good in the lovemaking department. Especially if we talking about couples with several years of marriage behind them and  sex has become routine. So somehow the swinging idea came up. Usually at first he almost have to force her into the swingers club.... 

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Male Menopause     | Go Up |

Many men have fallen victim to the myth of male menopause. There is no such thing.

However it might happen with lots of men that their orgasms become less powerful with age. In some cases this may be true, but less powerful does not mean less enjoyable. And men will notice that it takes longer to have another erection after orgasm. As teenagers, it may take a matter of minutes after orgasm; in their forties, many men find it takes a matter of hours. In your seventies it may take a few days. But this increase in time in no way reflects a loss of potency, a decline in sexuality, or a loss of sexual drive. 

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How to write your on-line profile     | Go Up |

Eastern is just a week away. If you are looking for someone to celebrate it with a swingers way, most likely you have posted your profile somewhere. With the next few sentence we would like to give some idea how to make your profile work.

As a dating website's administrator,  I have some suggestions how to write or fix your online profile. I know it has been said a  million times, but let me say it once again, post a photo of yourself! Just think about it, at one point you and your future partner want to know how each other  looks like. If you think someone will run away, because of your looks, then why you waste your time? Its better not to waste any time for a relationship that will end up in a run a way. The best solution is to post your photo. It doesn't need to be your best photo. A simple smiley face will do the job.

Don't want to show your face?  Then post a full body picture and turn your head a way or cover your face with some touch up graphic program.  A lot of dating websites have free picture scanning and touch up services, for example we have. If you need help to post ad, edit your picture, we can do it for you, at no charge. Also, keep in mind for most people  your sexual organs are not your most important body parts. So do not post it. If somebody wants to see it, before you meet, you can show after the first message exchange, if you want to. 

Plus in these day you can buy a digital camera on fairly affordable prices, and that is a solution for all kind of picture related problems.

If you are looking for a partner as a single, then you should be alone on the picture. If you are looking for fun for yourself  do not advertise any friend or x partner. Of course if you are looking for partners as a couple, then both of you should be on a picture, or if it is possible, post two different pictures. For example http://swingersads.swingersaffair.com/  provides on-line photo albums for every members, plus vide chat, built in instant massage system. What ever you need to have fun, you can find it here.

And at the end: What you should write into your profile? The most important things are your sex, your age and your marital status.  The next one: You have to make it clear what do you looking for and how. For example, looking for fun as a couple, but my hubby will not play with us, or looking for couple for full swap etc. More information you provide, your chance will be greater to find a compatible partner.

It is not a good idea to write negative phrases. For example I don't like hairy men. I don't is negative. It is much better to write, looking for men with little body hair. 

Everyone who visits dating related websites, looking for somebody. Save some time for them and save some time for yourself. Be honest! Honesty is the best policy.

Swinging & Workplace     | Go Up |

Looking for swinging partners in the workplace a recipe for disaster. You would have much more success and fewer headaches by using our web site to find partners for adult fun. However it is still legal to go out with a co-worker and is still legal to have some real fun with a co-worker, but it is a dangerous game. Many employees and employers appear to become very uncomfortable with co-workers relationships especially swinging relationships. 

If you are a male and something goes wrong, it is almost sure you will be charged with sexual harassment. If you are a woman and something goes wrong everyone going to call you a slat. I don't think any lady want to get there.

But even if everything works out fine, workplace swinging is still a risky venture for your sexual life and for your career. It can lead to hard feelings and can lead to emotional distress.

When the subject is sex you should be extra careful. What if the other co-workers find it out? Just think about it. If you are a female it definitely will not make any good for your career and your reputation. Sex related news flies very fast. In a few weeks all the men in you office building, (if you are working in a office) want you to give them a blow job, under their desk.. 

However if all above do not bother you and you think you can find another job very easily, then keep your resume updated and go for it. Remember, swinging with co-workers might cost you  your job. 

Our final advice: Don't mix your job with your sex life. This kind of relationship never has a happy ending.

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