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What  does the word  swinging  mean?
Swinging is social and sexual activity between couples and or singles with other people outside of their relationship.  Swinging is not cheating because  it happens in the presence of the primary partner or spouse.

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Soft Swing: A lot of different kinds of sexual activities belong to this category. Touching, kissing, hugging, erotic games, fore play, but no intercourse with other than the primary partner. Some swingers believe that oral sex is soft swinging.

Hard Core swinging:
Sexual activity and  intercourse with multiply partners. 

Same room fun:
Sexual activity in the same room in the presence of the primary partner with other  people outside of the relationship.

Twosome:
Sexual activities with two partners. Usually one lady entertained by two guys or one guy having fun with two ladies. Their gender can not be the same.

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Same as above plus one more person. However two couples don't count as a threesome. Two couples sexual activity can be a full swap if they exchange partners. Their genders can not be the same. Very often people call for threesome sexual activities with three person. We believe this is wrong. Just think about it, if making love with two person is a threesome, what do you call a twosome? Sexual activity with one person? If it is true, what do you call it when people have sex with their primary partner only? Are they having a twosome?

More some:
Sexual activity with more than 4 partners. Sexual activity with four partners is called foursome. If four couples have intercourse together, then they are having group sex.

Orgies:
Orgies are sexual activities with more than four participant couples. Both genders have several representatives in a orgy. However four couples can have an orgy also. It depends on how they exchange partners.

Bi curious:
Interested in playing erotic games, and in some cases to make love with the same gender person.

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Is a person who can make love and reach orgasm with both genders. Common among swingers women. Bi swingers men are rare, however lately more and more couples looking for partners where he is or both bi.

Voyeurism:
Often called watchers, because they watching others in involved in sexual activities.

Other cultures:
Pain and pleasure together. For example, spanking, bondage, sado masochism etc.

Swingers club and swingers party:
Can be off premise. It  means no intercourse allowed on the premise. To have intercourse you have to go somewhere else. However for play, nudity, touching and in some cases masturbation are okay.

On premise:
To have a choice to make love, participate in a orgy on the premises. This kind of club is usually located on private property, because in almost in every country it is against the law to have intercourse on public property. 

Dress code:  
Is a rule how the participants should dress. Some clubs have no running shoes or blue jeans policy. Ladies usually can dress as sexy as they want. The more sexier the merrier.

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How do I introduce someone to de swinging lifestyle?

Usually married men ask this question with a little change. How do I introduce my wife into swinging? It is not simple, but there is always a way. Two common way to do this. To go on the easiest one, you have to have a healthy relationship with open communication. Including openly and honestly communicating about your sex life.  If you belong to this category, then you somehow just have to ask. Of course you can use indirect pressure, with XXX videos and talking about fantasies etc, but sooner or later you have to ask. 

If you do not talk openly about your own sex life with your partner, than this going to need more time. First you have to find out is your partner interested in swinging? You can try to watch porno video with her. If this turns her on,  if the video makes her horny then you might get her into it... You have to start to talking about sex, what and how is good for you. More erotic talk the better. Talk about your fantasies and erotic dreams. You might go with her to pool parties where people might be topless or hot tub with other naked people. And lots of talk. First just suggest to her  that you watch other people making love, then masturbate at the same time. And more talk. There are several excellent books available on the market, where you can find all kinds of hat tricks and ideas, how can you talk someone into swinging.

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However you have to remember. Usually the idea of swinging comes from the man. Her first response will be: This is gross! I never ever will do it! If you are a lucky man, then you talked her into something like, just let's got to the swingers club to look around. She dressed sexy and met a man. He is nice and polite, she kind of liked him. Then next time she dressed  more sexier and met with another man. He is hot, funny and sexy. She had a good time with him, no sex maybe just some sexy dancing, but she realized people like her and people respect her. And the next time she dressed  really sexy, put into the showcase what ever is available to show and she met with a experienced swinger man, who knows how to get her into the mood. And she will do it. And here you are, the man who came up with the swinging idea. You are having fun, because you are in the swingers club, and you watch and dance with some hot ladies, but she is having  way much more fun. So before you start to talk her into swinging, you have to be sure, you can handle to watch her having real XXX fun with other men. Those guys are maybe younger, sexier, and better than you are.....

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How a friend of my got me to do his wife... with him? New erotic story.

.... Few weeks were gone by and I begun to forget she is a woman, even though I found her sexually very attractive. Then one Saturday afternoon Jack reminded me how sexy she was. We'd had a few drinks while watching the hockey game and just as the third period started Ria brought in a plate of nachos.
- You really found the perfect wife I said.
- Yeah, isn't she a beauty?
Jack asked, sliding his arms around her. His hands dangled down to her boobs and begun caressing them. I looked quickly to the TV, but Jack voice turned me back to them. 
- And her boobs are the best I ever had. Come here and feel them....

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Have a lot of fun and play safe....

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