A lot of people have given me the advice in my younger days: Never have sex with a friend. Why not? Sex with a friend is not just for lesbian roommates. I think everyone (strait, gay lesbian or bi sexual) should try to have sex with a friend. It is really enjoyable and a comfortable situation. You know your friend and your friend knows you. There should not be any pressure to be perfect. You are allowed to be the person who you are. You do not have to try to be perfect, because your friend might know anyway you are not.

A lot of people know this. That is why so many swingers ads start like this: We are looking for friends and maybe more! If you would like to know more about friends and dating check this page out!

If you would like to say something about friends and sex to our members and  visitors, please post your message here!

The Chemistry     | Go Up |

If you have browsed swingers ads, you probably have already realized that a lot of people are looking for friendship plus. They write that we are looking for friendship and if the chemistry is there, maybe more. Most of the swingers, males, females, married, singles or divorced see chemical attraction as a necessary something to have a passionate, intimate time, and sex with somebody. So what exactly is chemistry? Some swingers think this kind of chemistry is so mysterious something, that cannot be defined. If the chemistry is not there, nothing will happen. And on the other hand, if the chemistry is there you will feel it instantly when you see a good looking woman or man. You will think: "Wow, we can have a lot of fun together".

This happens because our brain produces chemicals if we feel sexual attraction to the person. These naturally produced chemicals make us feel horny and will keep us sexually aroused for a shorter or longer period of time. With out chemistry it is hard to have quality adult fun. However anyone might try to develop that chemistry. How? It is very simple. You have to get to know each other. Find out the other person's dream or erotic fantasy and the chemistry might develop. For experienced swingers it takes just a few hours, new bies need more time. However if you cannot develop that chemistry, you should not waste your time.  You should try to find somebody else.

What's New?     | Go Up |

When is a good time to start to swinging? And how?

Every now and then we get a question about how can I start to swing or how can I talk to my wife into swinging.

For some people always is a good time and some others never. However if you are married or live in a long relationship with someone, there are some signs, that mean it is time to make some changes, for example starting to swing. It will be a big change, won't it? It will spice up things in the bedroom.

We have added a related web page to our website. You can visit it here.

Wish Store     | Go Up |

Another always keep coming back question is: How should I dress to go a swingers party, or what should I wear in the swing club.

Our partner DatingSense.com has created a new store with erotic club wears, lingerie's, bras and panties and adult toys. The best selection all over the web. Check it out here!

Glossary of Swinging     | Go Up |

The world is changing around us, our language and people in the lifestyle are changing too. We create new words. We have added an updated glossary of swinging page to our personal home page. Check it out here for common terms and words that use by swingers in the online dating and lifestyle world.

Have a lot of fun and play safe....

WebMiss