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How do you pick up the lady of your dreams on the dance floor?

Clubbing and going out is a major part of life, if you are after a quickie. It is easy to pick up someone slutty in a cheap bar, who by 2 in the morning is desperately horny.

But how do you pick up the lady of your dreams on the dance floor? The hot chick that every man is looking at and wants. Our sex-pert explains all….. "Picking up a girl or a woman on the dance floor is harder than it looks. But then isn't everything in life? Picking up any female is hard enough, don't get me wrong. But picking up the hottest lady in the swingers club is even harder, because you might have to deal with her partner or honey too. I do sympathise with you guys but to get close to a hot married lady to develop some kind of chemistry is just not that simple. However there are some do's and don'ts which could make all the difference to you. These do, if you do them will make difference in any bar or club not just only in  a swingers club.

Try to establish eye contact

When eye contact has been established, and you wander over don't blow it by a cheesy chat up line. They simply don't work these days. They've been tried before you and failed so don't fall into the trap and think you're different- you aren't at all. A simple hello, or can I get you a drink may be much more successful than a cheesy chat up line.

The other way to go: The 3 seconds rule

Even if you really cannot think of anything to initiate a conversation with a lady, act in 3 seconds, even if you have no idea, how to continue. If you act in 3 seconds, she will notice it, no matter where she just popped in from or where you popped in from or how you happened to pass each other. She will see the spontaneity in your approach and it will work in your favour. If you wait and hesitate and then decide to approach, you are in a weaker situation, because she might think you could not find anybody, so you chose her. The 3 second rule is extremely important. In one night using this rule you can talk to many ladies. In three seconds, you have no time to become sweaty, trembling, stuttering - to acquire all the sure-fire signs of lacking any confidence, substance or consequence, a failure with women and life in general, a complete repellent of beautiful lady. So even if you start sweating, stuttering and trembling while talking to her, you weren't that way when you initiated contact - you just didn't have the time for that. And it's the first impression that counts. And if that first impression of you was that of a confident and spontaneous man, her feelings for you were positive from the start, which in turns greatly the diminishes the chances of you turning into a plateful of jelly while having a conversation with her.

Then don't appear to be drunk

Now this may sound both stupid and obvious, but you would be surprised at what a difference it can make. Trust me, no female likes a slobbering, out of control male, breathing smelly, beer breathe all over them. If you fall or trip onto a girl, knocking them or even worse pushing them over, I suggest you make a hasty exit, without a backwards glance. You have to make a decision what do you want. Do you want to get drunk and take home a slut or have some real fun with a  hot woman? Drinking and pick up a good looking lady just don't go together. You should not drink, even if you are more relaxed and funny when you drink. I don't say that you stay sober all night, but you should be very careful with your alcohol intake. You might build up something and if you drink to much, you'll only make a fool of yourself, because when the time comes to perform you can't. You'll only end up embarrassing yourself and  bad one like this the man's nightmare.

Pick the right combination

Clothes all ways catch girl's eye, sometimes for the wrong reasons. One key idea is to make sure you are dressed correctly or accordingly for the place you are going. Don't wear a silk Hawaii shirt for a Garage Night, or trendy shirt and tie duo for a pajama party. You simply just won't attract the right attention or girl for that matter. The best thing to do is ask your females friend what they like to see men in, what catches their eye, and what doesn't. This will give you a good general idea. Also if you go to swing club you should ask them their dressing rule. Lot of clubs have no blue jean, nor running shoes etc. policy. What ever you choose to wear, it should fit you properly. There is no point to wear an expensive designer top  if it is two sizes bigger than you are.

You should look like you're enjoying yourself

This again may seem obvious, but you'd be surprised at how many men look unhappy or worse desperate with a ladies company. Trust me, there is nothing worse than a man continually looking around for talent, almost panting. Just relax and enjoy yourself with your partner. The aura that you give out will be much healthier and happier, therefore attracting more women.

Personal hygiene

Personal hygiene and appearance are very important. We have already talked about clothes above, but body odor is even more important. Most people I hope start the night smelling nice and fresh, but 4 hours later it may not be the same story. Smelly men’s sweating is the most repulsive thing ever. Make sure to prevent this happening with you. Invest in a rarer, more expensive perfume. If you are serious to have a real fun with a really hot lady, it's worth every penny. Every man smelling the same can become quite tiresome. When one a bit different comes along, interest sparks!

Try and look like you can dance

For most of the ladies there is nothing more than a good dancer that can get their pulses racing. But on the other hand a bad dancer is the worst turn off. Now, it's all very well me saying "learn to dance" because I know dancing is hard enough, dancing well is almost impossible. If you can't dance try to stay cool and definitely don't jump around like an idiot. Just try to pick the rhythm of the music up and move your upper body mainly. One of the scariest things that you can do when you dance with her, go behind her,  and try to sticking your cock into her backside. DO NOT DO THIS!!! Realistically how many men do you see have success with this method on the first meeting? None that I've heard. You might think, as you stare at your targets bottom that they are inviting you. If you are right she going to make the first move.

However going to the bar or the swing club will not guarantee any success. You  might have to spend a great amount of time and money before you get "lucky". No  club is cheap these days plus no  lady will want a cheap guy. Why go out to clubs or bars, spend at least a 100 bucks to get some attention, deal with the conversation, and then drive home alone. Why bother? Why not check our picture personals out or what the next search form is offer? There are more than a  couple of thousand members that only want casual relationships, that's the best thing I have heard of. You can have more fun from this website because everyone here is looking the same things. No commitment - sex only relationships.

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